Leon Said:

are my parents insane? How do I deal with them?

We Answered:

write shorter diatribes about family

Katie Said:

Virender Sehwag named Batsman of the Decade..Your Thoughts ?

We Answered:

I think he has been one of the most destructive batsman of all-time. He could change the direction of a game on its head in matter of minutes.

I always enjoyed his batting.

He's very important to the team success. The way he plays demoralizes the bowlers, and opposition captains can't set a field for him when he is in full flow.

I wish him all the best, and let his break more records. Hope he can break Lara's record of 400 in tests, and score a 200 in ODIs.

Tim Said:

Should I tell my husband's commander about this?

We Answered:

Sarah,

Calm down, listen to me. Sometimes the pressures on a military person can trigger Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD). There are all kinds of things you can do. First, go see your CHAPLAIN. He will guide you from there. Don't try and handle this alone. Once your husband gets diagnosed, it does wonders.

Tonya Said:

Which Match Are You Looking Forward To The Most At MITB Plus THW Presents Full Circle PPV Results Part Two?

We Answered:

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Gail Said:

How to end something for the best of both people?

We Answered:

One, if you two divorce before the 10 year mark, she won't be able to remain in the country. There are strict laws that pertain to being married only such a short amount of time and her residency will do nothing to help her remain here.

Second, i hope you are truly learning from this. You are unable to communicate and open dialog with another person to help create resolutions to problems. This will plague every relationship you have. Even if you meet someone who is able to try to open dialogue, if you are unable it will lead to the same problems. You need to go get some self help books or seek help to learn how to manage problems within a relationship before getting into another relationship.

I also hope you learned that getting married right away isn't healthy and not worth doing twice. Had you waited one full year before hand, you could probably have avoided this entire thing.

Third, there is no way to end something easily when one person doesn't want to end it. She is entitled to her emotions and feelings on the subject. You cannot be spared them if you decide to go through with asking for a divorce. Be like me asking you to accept me hurting you really badly without you saying a word about it or making a noise that would indicate you having pain. Unreasonable really. And truthfully, the only reason you are asking this quesiton is to save yourself from having to cope with her emotions and feelings.

Be honest and candid. Sit her down and say it as it is. I want a divorce. When she asks why, simply tell her you are not happy within the marriage. Do not lay this on her. Do not tell her that you feel she would be happier elsewhere or with someone else. It's selfish and not the real truth to it. Real truth is YOU do not want the marriage so take full and total responsibility for it. You can state that you feel the marriage doesn't have a good dynamic and seems to have unresolvable issues. But lay the blame on yourself. She'll be just as hurt, just as upset... but at least you won't be blaming her. Take what she says, listen. Acknowledge her emotions and feelings as valid, even if it does nothing to change your mind.

Say things along the lines of... 'I understand that you feel that way and i accept it, but it doesn't change the fact that i still an unhappy and want a divorce'.

Edwin Said:

My husband is having an affair (little long, but entertaining... HELP!)?

We Answered:

Hey girl, as a previous game addict and with one who has a slight addiction I have to say I feel you. Though the whole thing is we were both gamers and sometimes it would be him getting the cold shoulder from me and my computer games.

Now you say you have talked to him, but have you really talked to him? It seems like hubby is being a big baby. He needs to grow up and face some facts – and they’re probably ones he’s not going to like. Everything you said to us? You need to say to him. Seriously. Turn that game off, sit his butt in a chair facing him, and say “We Need To Talk.” And if he’s smart he’s going to tune in real quick. Those are the magic words.

Counseling would probably be good for you both after you’ve told him what you’ve said here – you need to tell him that the only way that you two will work as a married couple is if he agrees to go to counseling and get some control under his gaming. It’s not fair to you that you’re working all day and he’s working hardly at all and spending your money. I’m sure he’ll throw some sort of depression whining card about not being able to get a job – well you see him sitting in front of the TV all day, how is he looking for one? Call that man out! He’s getting away with it like he’s a teenage boy living at mom and dads.

Since you want to save this marriage, which is a first step. The second step is getting your husband on board to the train of Marriage Repair. Honestly, your best course of action is telling him what you have said here and then both of you getting counseling. He needs some structure in his life – work, chores, quality time with the wife, and then quality time with whatever he wants to do. It’s not okay to sit in front of a TV all day every day to play video games. A good idea, turn off the cable. He cannot play with people online that way. Also he needs to get more hours at the job he has or pick up another job. No more excuses, he used your savings, which means it’s time for him to change.

Good luck, hope it works out! God Bless!

Suzanne Said:

how old do you think i am for writing this?

We Answered:

You'd have to be pretty childish to want to ask that question, so it doesn't matter if you are 11 or 40, but I think you might even be too young to use Yahoo Answers (you need to be 13 for that).