Lena Said:

Can a person who has prior felonies have a productive and successful career?

We Answered:

Well, I don't think anyone can answer this question for you. You fail to mention what kind of felonies, what state these felonies were committed in and how long ago they were committed. Those are all kind of the basic need-to-know information so someone that has been through or knows information can help you.

With that said, typically, it is extremely difficult for someone with felonies to get certain careers. Especially if they live in a state where these felonies cannot be expunged or sealed. It also depends on the place hiring. Sometimes, they do not require you to disclose felonies over ten years. Even if he was able to get those expunged or sealed, background checks will often still show the arrest record.

As for your future, he went TWO years before disclosing this to you. I think you should just start from there and decide for yourself what other things he isn't communicating to you. Relationships are about honesty and communication. No matter how in love you think you are with this person, you need to take a step back and ask yourself, feelings about him aside, would you have walked away 6 dates in before he had you hook, line and sinker? If you would have walked away knowing he was a felon before you fell in love with him, you should probably walk away now. You have to be willing to accept a person for who they are 100%. It sounds like you are hesitant to do that and not ready to make a full commitment to this person. If for two years, he got away with you not doubting him...and you doubt him now...not a good sign. But only you can decide that.

Kevin Said:

Do you have a success story of truly finding happiness?

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I am constantly changing my life to maintain my happiness. Happiness never stays stagnant. It changes based on our environment and personal growth. I realized that I wasn't happy with the path my parents wanted me to take. I didn't want the traditional college experience. I didn't want to follow the stereotypes. So I got back in touch with my high school sweetheart (who I'd given up because he joined the USAF and I didn't think I should go with him). We got married, I moved to Germany with him. I went against everything that was wanted for me by everyone I knew and did what I wanted. And I am happy.

Joe Said:

Life after trading?

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I was a hedge fund manager who became a college professor. (I already had the Ph.D.) My blood pressure has dropped to normal levels. I see my children and have the energy to be part of their lives. I enjoy working with my students and learning "low priority" things rather than hiring someone to do them for me.

The question is: Have you saved enough money to keep your current lifestyle while earning a "normal" salary? If so, the transition will be easier, though you'll have to get used to your time not having so high a monetary value.

Good luck!

Jack Said:

For career success should I fake an interest in sports?

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it seems that employers are looking for people with sports interests. i know i get disappointed looks when i have said i have no involvement in sports...

Mary Said:

What I really want in my life?

We Answered:

I'm sorry you haven't figured out your passion yet but its not something someone is going to tell you what it is. It's something you discover on your own.
Here's my story:
all my life i wanted to be a vet. then one day i came across a radio show on a random radio station. it was a talk show and it caught my attention. then for like a week i continued to listen to the station and the other shows on it. one day i decided to call in to one of the shows because the topic had me furious. i got on the air right away and was aboe to talk to the voice that was coming out of my radio. it was such a rush and the best feeling ever. after that moment i was on fire and discovered my passion. i knew immediately that that is what i wanted to do. i just loved every aspect of how personal and close radio can be. and i loved how your opinions can be expressed even if they are not liked. after then i decided to chase my dream. i networked with people at that same radio station and i got lots of contacts. i landed an internship then got hired shortly after. althought i am not working on air just yet i am working at the station that i hope to be on someday. just knowing im that class makes life worth it. ive even got to meet the man i talked to on the air my very first time i called in. i was able to tell him how he changed my life :) i hope that was encouraging and will help you