Wallace Said:

Is my husband right in saying that I don't deserve him?

We Answered:

No. You sound lonely, that's all. You have too much time on your hands to focus inward. Self-examination is a good thing - taken in moderation. Too much, for too long can give you a warped perception of who you really are.

The things you list - your negative traits. Those aren't who you are. They are things you do, actions you take - but that's not who you are. You husband married you, has tried for 3 years to have a child with you - YOU have value to him. He loves you, in spite of you, that means you give him something that no one else can or does.

The list you made - EVERYONE has those traits, I bet your husband has some of those too. Most people, in order to get along, hold back a bit on showing them to the world. That's all. It sounds like your no different from anyone else - and I mean that in a good way. You have just spent too much time focusing on it all.

Your about to have a baby. Your going to be someones mom. Keep thinking that. You might not be June Cleaver, but hey, your still a mom. That means you are going to be the number 1 most important thing in someones life. They will love you no matter what.

Step back from the mirror - set your gaze on something or someone else for a while. Relax, everything will be alright - if you want it to be.