Arthur Said:

How do I deal with my boyfriends police job search?

We Answered:

Yeah this is a lot of questions and unfortunately there is no easy answer. It sounds like he is set on having a job in law enforcement and it is nice that you seem to be supportive of this. Without knowing all the details, like the reasons for the delay in him getting hired, some of your other life circumstance etc there is not a lot more I could really say other than to hang in there.

Having to be away from home for work is hard on both of you I'm sure. He is stressing because he does not understand why he isn't getting hired. You said it yourself, you just want to be there for him, so do just that, support him. If he is by chance not passing the test then he either needs to study harder or consider another related field.

As far as getting married, do not rush, if you agree that you want to be more secure in your careers and financial situation that is perfectly normal, and it is fine to wait. Also this is not all about him, you support him and he needs to do things to help you as well. Talk with him about ways to try to spend a little more time together, 45 miutes away is not all that far, so try to spend a little more time together.

Good luck and like I said hang in there.


Additional
I just read some of the other responses. I did not get the impression from your post that this is a "bad" relationship with a lot of other problems. If that is the case then you do need to consider your future with him. What I got out of it is this particular situation is causing some stress for both of you and that you both seem to agree on most things. If that is the case the thing to do is not to cut and run but to work harder on making it work.

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